Tristan Higbee Sharing How He Dealt With Loss of Motivation


Motivation

As i have announced yesterday that Tristan from BloggingBookshelf will be writing a guest post sharing how he dealt with loss of motivation. I am very please to welcome Tristan for sharing his views. Over to you, Tristan.

Lye sent me an email and asked, “How do you keep yourself motivated to continue blogging?” What I had intended to be only a couple paragraphs morphed into a full-fledged blog post. It turns out that I have a lot more to say on the subject than I thought!

A lot of my blogs have failed because of a lack of motivation on my part. Maybe the best way to introduce the topic of how I currently stay motivated is to share several examples of times when I haven’t stayed motivated. So first let me share examples of why some of my past blogs have failed. More specifically, I’ll share why and how I lost motivation. After that, I’ll talk about how to regain that motivation you once had.

5 reasons I’ve lost motivation in the past

I had a poetry blog that failed because I got burned out after a year of posting daily. Updating it eventually became a stressful chore rather than a enjoyable hobby, so I just stopped. Lesson: Be careful about blogging every day. Blogging is more of a marathon than a sprint. If you constantly feel the pressure of having to blog, you’ll lose motivation.

I had a travel blog that failed because while I absolutely love to travel, I don’t necessarily like writing about it. Lesson: Just because you like something, that doesn’t mean you will like writing about it. Try to determine whether you like writing about your topic before you dive headlong into it.

I had a niche website about dating that failed because I hated everything about the niche. Lesson: Blog about something you’re very passionate about. Don’t enter a niche just because it is potentially profitable.

Now having said that, I think it’s important to be in a niche that could make you a decent amount of money (though that amount, of course, is different for everyone). I had a rock climbing blog that I loved, but I eventually realized that there just wasn’t very much money to be made in the niche. Lesson: Choose a niche that you can make money in.

I quit working on a domain name blog because I wasn’t seeing the results I had optimistically anticipated. But I’m impatient and stopped blogging. Lesson: Realize that success takes time and things probably won’t go the way you want them to. If you know this before you start, it will be less of a shock to your system you become frustrated.

Though I’ve had some success as a blogger, as you can see I definitely have had more than my fair share of failures. But over the past several years, all of these failures have, one by one, pointed me in the direction that I wanted to go. I could cross each idea off of my list and move on to the next one. By keeping in mind all of these lessons that I’ve learned the hard way, I finally realized what I really wanted to blog about and what I could blog about for a long time. That alone makes a world of difference in terms of staying motivated.

How to regain the motivation you’ve temporarily lost

As I said, if you’ve been unhappy with your blog for one reason or another for a while, don’t be afraid of stopping and moving on to something else. But if you’re just temporarily lacking motivation, there are a few things you can do to get it back.

The first thing you can do is simply take a break from your blog. Stop blogging for a week or two and then come back to it. Hopefully you’ll have come up with new ideas and been reinvigorated.

Another thing you can do is take the time to comment on tons of other blogs in your niche. This will bring more traffic and comments back to your site, which could give you the boost of confidence and motivation you need to keep going.

If you’ve temporarily lost motivation, return to your roots. Let me explain. If you’re blogging about woodworking and are lacking the motivation to blog about it, just go back to woodworking for fun without worrying about the blog. This will rekindle the excitement and passion you used to feel, and hopefully inspire you enough to start blogging again.

After all of this you might be wondering how I’ve managed to continue blogging in general, especially after having suffered so much failure and defeat. It’s simple; I love it!

After all of these years (I’ve been blogging since 2003) and all of the above-mentioned failures, I’ve managed to stay motivated to blog simply because I love blogging. I love writing, I love building something out of scratch, I love connecting with great new people, and I love the idea of being my own boss of a location-independent internet business. I’m not quite there yet, but I’m so close I can almost taste it. Just keep remembering why you’re doing this whole blogging thing and some day it will all be worth it.

Tristan Higbee just launched Blogging Bookshelf, where he dispenses smart blogging tips for smart people. Subscribe to the Blogging Bookshelf newsletter and get his ebook, 101 Ways You’re Killing Your Blog, for free!

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25 Responses to Tristan Higbee Sharing How He Dealt With Loss of Motivation
  1. Patricia
    November 26, 2010 | 9:00 pm

    Hi Tristan

    Great to see you on Lye’s blog. I’m over here a lot so nice surprise to have you guest posting for his site.

    Wow, no surprise why you know how to network now. Blogging for quite a few years, you have some things to teach us newbies, that’s for sure :-)

    A poet as well. I love poetry so if you ever decide to publish some on your new blog; that would bring some new readers. I already visit another poet’s blog regularly and really enjoy her writing.

    You have brought out some really important aspects of blogging and it is hard to stay motivated every day if I don’t ever take a break. I took an almost day off on Sunday and it was amazing how much work I have got done since! Thanks for sharing Tristan. As always I have enjoyed your content-rich post.

    Patricia Perth Australia
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    • Tristan
      November 27, 2010 | 11:45 am

      Thanks for the comment, Patricia!

      I actually think I will publish some of my poetry at some point on Blogging Bookshelf. The plan is to release it as a free ebook and then also sell it on Amazon as a print book. I’ve never sold a book on Amazon, and I’d like to see how the process works and then blog about it :)

      Yeah, I think a lot of people fail to realize the value in taking a break. This past week has been a relatively light one for me in terms of promoting my blog, doing guest posts, etc. Burning out is definitely not an option!

      Thanks again for the comment!
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      • Patricia
        November 28, 2010 | 10:42 pm

        Wow that would be great if you publish on Amazon. I will definitely promote if it is anything like the quality content on your blog :-)

        Patricia Perth Australia
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  3. Steve
    Twitter:
    November 26, 2010 | 10:37 pm

    Tristan

    You did come up with a pretty complete synopsis of the hows and whys of losing interest.

    The main three as I see it (all of which you hit) 1. insufficient passion. 2. Not being willing to “stick” to it and do the work. 3. Money not living up to expectations.

    These are the ones that get MOST people in one way or another
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  4. SEM Blog Dan
    November 26, 2010 | 11:40 pm

    I’ve written a guest post on the same subject, which is pending publication on FamousBloggers. Anyway, I agree that sometimes the best blogging tip you can implement is to stop blogging :)
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  5. Thu Nguyen
    November 27, 2010 | 4:41 am

    Talk about hitting it out of the ballpark Tristan! Great to know more about you in this particular post. Mostly because I have had the opportunity of meeting you around the blogosphere, but haven’t yet formally introduced myself. :) I’m glad I’ve taken out the time to read this post though. Furthermore, that’s such an awesome decision to take something Lye has sent to everyone and make it your very own guest post! Talk about thinking outside of the box.

    That really gets me motivated as well to see that someone has changed the way something is done and make it their own. These insights are certainly part of what makes the blogosphere colorful, creative and unique. As for making money, I think passion will eventually turn into profits.

    And like Patricia says, would love to read some of your poetry. I have tons tucked away from notebooks around the same time your were blogging online. :)

    Cheers!
    Thu
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  6. Peter J
    November 27, 2010 | 2:13 pm

    Take a break is number one. We work ourselves to death, and often if we take a long break, we might feel that we actually want to get back to our blogging.

  7. Barbara Ling, Virtual Coach
    November 27, 2010 | 6:46 pm

    “I had a niche website about dating that failed because I hated everything about the niche. Lesson: Blog about something you’re very passionate about. Don’t enter a niche just because it is potentially profitable.”

    YES YES YES YESYEEESSSSSSS!

    In other words, wow, do I ever agree with you. Been there, done that, bought the apparel store….
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  8. Michele Welch
    November 27, 2010 | 8:49 pm

    Well, well, well Trisitan… quite a story. And very motivational in it’s own right! I have a BIG feeling you won’t be changing your focus any time soon. You’ve seem to have found your groove.

    Anyway, something you said really struck a cord with me. It was about stepping away and taking a break from your blog and coming back in a week or two with fresh ideas. Have you done this before?

    See the problem is not that I don’t absolutely love what I do or that I don’t have a lot to write about, the problem is that I have too much to say. Make sense?

    Anyway, it’s all BS right? Just take action, stop complaining and know that motivation is not something that you seek OUT THERE but something that you create for yourself because you choose it. Ooops just think I had a ahha moment!

    Thanks for sharing your experiences with us Tristan. Truly awesome post!!

    • Tristan
      November 28, 2010 | 7:13 am

      Very true, Michele, I’m here to stay in this groove :)

      Yes, I have stepped away from a blog and come back to it. I’ve also stepped away from a blog and not come back to it!

      And yeah, I know how the whole having-too-much-to-say thing goes. I’ve found that I’ve really got to pace myself and realize that my readers can only handle so much, and that I can spend that time doing other things that could benefit me more.

      I think there’s probably a diminishing returns aspect here, too. I mean, will posting 7 times a week really get you THAT much more traffic than posting 3 or 4 times a week? And even if it does, is it worth that extra effort and strain?

      And you make a great point about motivation being internal rather than external. I agree 100%!

      Thanks Michele!
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  9. Rahul from MazaKaro
    November 28, 2010 | 1:11 am

    really amazing thoughts and talking about motivation and how to keep is very important!!!
    Blogging is more of a marathon than a sprint , i do believe in this , for sure!!
    Taking care of the subject you will talk about is a very important step before starting , and i do agree for sure , cause content needs a lot of care and writing about things you like is not that important cause somtimes you feel you were not fair or something !
    many good points , thank you for sharing this :)

  10. Adam
    November 28, 2010 | 1:37 am

    Thanks for sharing Tristan.

    I think blogging is a log journey during which you have to fail couple of time to be able to succeed in the future. Blogging is also about loosing motivation, burning out, doubts and finding the energy to continue.

    The right intention is probably one of the key factors that keep people motivated. If you blog only because of money or because you think it is just “so cool” to have own blog, than you will most likely lost your motivation within the first month.

    I liked your: Blogging is more of a marathon than a sprint…This is so true.

  11. DiTesco
    Twitter:
    November 29, 2010 | 12:03 am

    Absolutely great Tristan and well deserve to be on the spotlight for a specific post. Like you I have failed in many of the blogs I have created in the past and while this was the case, I found that they gave me motivation to move on things further. I take failures as a “hard” lesson, lesson which is important to overcome fear and succeed in the future.
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  12. Bryan
    November 29, 2010 | 10:22 am

    Hey Tristan,

    Nice to meet you here! Very valuable advice there especially when you have so much experience blogging in all the various types of blogs. I especially like the advice about taking a break. There are days when I just don’t feel like blogging but I feel like have to. I don’t want my passion to turn into a chore and lose interest in it.

    I think I shall take a little slowly these days especially when the holiday seasons is coming soon. Taking a break can help reinvigorate your interest again. Great tips especially when you said go back to doing woodwork a while and then come back to blog again.

    Looking forward to seeing your poems too :)

    Great advice coming from someone with so many years of experience in blogging!
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  13. Adam Paudyal
    Twitter:
    November 29, 2010 | 3:05 pm

    Tristan,

    What a great synopsis of how one can loose interest in blogging.

    So very true about being careful about blogging every day. I agree blogging is more of a marathon than a sprint. If you constantly feel the pressure of having to blog, you’ll lose motivation. No doubt about it brother…I had that experience with my pet blog.

    Awesome insights Tristan.
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  14. Chris from Voltmeter Gauge
    January 21, 2011 | 1:08 am

    One of the best ways to accomplish your goals in life is to motivate yourself to take action. Useful habits can increase your effectiveness immensely. One of the best traits to develop is the Do It Now habit. This can get you started on a task even when you don’t feel like working.

    You probably should start with small, everyday tasks. After you have developed this habit using easy tasks, you can gradually increase the difficulty of these tasks. But remember, after giving the Do It Now command, you must always carry through with immediate action.
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  15. Hailey Lee
    November 8, 2011 | 11:28 am

    Blogging is really a record quest which you tend to be fall short a few moment in order to succeed in the future. Blogging and site-building is also concerning of loosing inspiration, uncertainties and also choosing the energy to carry on. You made a great article Tristan! Keep it up!
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